Dating cool guy cast of eight simple rules for dating my teenage daughter
A blog post has finally arrived, that – ‘to be fair’ – as they say in London, will probably do more to help you in your romantic quest than any other you may read. Well – the truth of the matter is that when it comes to dating and intermingling with the fairer sex, shit can go sideways on you quickly. Years later, I thought back on those little wrist reminders all the weird religious kids had but changed the meaning mentally to: ‘What Would James [Bond] Do’. He may be emotionally damaged and fictitious, but he is the epitome of cool nonetheless.
One minute she is talking about how swell of a guy you are and all of the fun and exotic travel you two will enjoy together, and the next, you seem to have set fire to her favorite childhood dollhouse and are the cause of all the menstrual cramps of the world. So yeah, suffice to say, there is no way around having to deal with mixed signals and emotions whilst riding the life’s roller coaster, unless you want to become a monk and eat bland porridge for the rest of your days. In any given situation he always delivers the perfect line and exudes a vibe of utter confidence to assholish indifference, marking him as a solid rock in the mightiest of storms.
All of these scenarios above you can find endless blog posts and dating guru talk ad nausea about on the interwebs, but the fact of the matter is, you know what to do – because it is what James would do. D, you may just discover yourself slowing down, smiling, taking another sip of that dur whiskey…because cool guys aren’t reactive. Just try to envision what James would do and you will know how tally forth young man.
When you find yourself in the social jungle and start to think W.
And what you expect from a guy and from a happy relationship would be very different from what your friend expects.
Likewise, relationships too are just as unique, and what works for one person doesn’t always have to work for someone else.
You are out with your girlfriend and she starts to get emotionally erratic (shocking right? One minute she feels interested and excitable and the next she is pouncing on every little thing you do as annoying and accuses you of putting ‘words in her’ mouth and backs out of everything she ever said like a slippery DJTrump. Do you give in to her and ask her what is wrong and walk on eggshells all day (more like 4-5 days, am I right?! Or do you take a firm line and start fighting back and fuel the firey dragon? Rather, James would simply tell her that he doesn’t hang with people who are acting the way she is, and remove himself from the situation entirely (assuming it doesn’t happen in a situation where you can’t remove yourself…which it always seems to for some reason).
Anyway, James has a limited amount of time and views his time as a his most sacred asset.
You both seem to get on well and she happens to share you enthusiasm for pet llamas – awesome.
What should you do after the initial interaction ends?
Seek her out and try to keep the conversation going to see what other ‘interests you share’?
What do you say when she writes you back a couple days later with some lame excuse and wants you to chase after her again? He may have already met another lady in the process and didn’t lose a second in thought over ‘what her flaking means’.
In response to her texts, he may say ‘Not a problem’ and leave it at that.
The ones who make you wait by the phone and wonder what theyre doing are the cool guys (also known as too-cool-for-school-guys). Cool The cool guy is usually the one that will love you and leave you.